by Alphonse Muraton 1824-1911
Come Rest Awhile
by Lucy Maude Montgomery 1874-1942
Come rest awhile, and let us idly stray,
In glimmering valleys, cool and far away.
Come from the greedy mart, the troubled street,
And listen to the music, faint and sweet,
That echoes ever to a listening ear,
Unheard by those who will not pause to hear
The wayward chimes of memory's pensive bells,
Wind-blown o'er misty hills and curtained dells.
One step aside and dewy buds unclose
The sweetness of the violet and the rose;
Song and romance still linger in the green,
Emblossomed ways by you so seldom seen,
And near at hand, would you but see them, lie
All lovely things beloved in days gone by.
You have forgotten what it is to smile
In your too busy life--come, rest awhile.
In a Rock Garden
by Alfred DeBreanski
For good health, a sound mind, and a feeling of well-being, homemakers should include rest in their daily routines. Rest can often be neglected, as we push ahead to the next important task. Sleeping at night is not enough. For this reason, a homemaker might find it necessary to write the word "rest" somewhere on her list of things to do.
Establish a resting time by doing it regularly if you can. One aged aunt of mine, a widow, "took to her bed" for about a half an hour every afternoon, no matter what. She arose quite early to tend her farm chores and by early afternoon, she needed to have her nap, so that she could be well rested for late afternoon and evening activities. After people had grown used to this custom, she did not announce her rest time, but would quietly slip away to a small room for about half an hour. She had done this for so long, that her relatives just expected her to take to her bed every afternoon, whether they were there or not.
Women of all ages and stages of life can have a rest time.
When mothers need to put her feet up and read or write a letter or take a nap, children can sit quietly on a couch or their beds, and even if they do not sleep, do something of a quiet nature.
Mothers of older children can still have a resting time, even if they do not need to sleep. It can be observed as a tea time or a special time where they do something that relaxes them, whether it be picking up their knitting or watching a favorite movie.
Women without children still need rest, and perhaps it is even more essential, since they do not have children's schedules to slow them down, and can be more likely to keep moving and working at home.
Unmarried women at home still need to take time to rest, to give them the good health to tackle any future hard times, should they come.
Older women need restful times and need to avoid stress, as at that stage in their life, their health and well-being can be a delicate balance.
A Summer Garden
by Alfred DeBreanski, 1877-1957
Resist the tendency to make work out of resting time. It is restful to go for a stroll, but it is tempting to turn it into serious exercise. It is relaxing to have a tea time, but it can easily turn into something more elaborate by serving so many treats and using so many dishes that it becomes
more work than rest. It is good to read something that interests you, but do not feel you have to start a project that will put pressure on you and take up more of your time. It is wonderful to sit on a rocking chair on the front porch, but it is not restful if you are thinking of more things to do. It is lovely to look at sewing magazines or read about the interesting things other people are making, but it becomes a labor if you feel you have to do it all.
Some women are so busy that they could make work out of a vacation. Rest can be learned by treating it as a type of art. If you were learning to paint, you would start your lessons with basic equipment, and work at short and simple lessons, until you became more at ease with it. It is the same with rest: begin slowly and form a habit, until you feel you know what you are doing and can get the most benefit from it.
A Wayside House
by Alfred De Breanski Jr.
The Art of Rest: To rest adequately, remove all tension from your mind. Do not spend a moment reading or listening to the news or anything that can create uneasiness, worry or a feeling of being uncertain or unsettled. Use the time to mull over a verse of scripture and ponder its meaning, or repeat an inspirational poem.
Lucy Maude Montgomery's poem about rest is interesting, because it tells us that even in her day, people were too busy and had to be reminded to rest. She speaks of all the things that were loved "in days gone by." Those who lived before us were just as nostalgic of the past, or of the days gone by, as many of us are in this present age. The things they missed "in days gone by" were those quiet moments when life was pleasant.
Keep Rest Time Restful. During rest time, do not allow your thoughts to land on any gloom or despair, but deliberately guide them to things that are pleasant. "Whatever is good, pure and lovely," (Philippians 4:4-9) If worrisome thoughts tend to come into your head, it will take some steady practice to replace them, each time, with something better. Some people keep a song in their hearts, for this purpose. Each time they begin to worry, they hum their song, or mentally recite the words to a beautiful song, poem, or scripture. Some people like to play soothing music when napping or resting, especially if it is a familiar tune.
There are many types of resting times, including being still for awhile, sitting in a rocking chair, or laying down. It is not necessary to fall asleep when taking a rest. Lay down for 5 minutes, whether you feel like it or not, increasing it 5 more minutes each day, until you can lay down for twenty minutes. If you are a busy person, this will not be easy, but if you look at it as an art and as part of your routine, it will be easier to establish the habit. Upon arising from a nap, wash your face in cool water and have something to drink. Start quietly back into your day.
The Dove Cote
by Alfred DeBreanski
"And I said, O that I had wings like a dove! For then would I fly away, and be at rest."
Rest can become something you look forward to, as you set aside time and plan restful activities or prepare your resting area. A comfy couch with a foot rest, a quiet time between meals, and a stack of reading you have saved for such a time, all add to the comfort and serenity of rest time. Gather all your materials for letter writing or crochet, or get a stack of magazines and take to your bed. You need not stay long, but do cultivate the art of rest, daily, and you will experience the physical and spiritual good that it does.
Do not feel guilty about resting, especially if you are a homemaker. Homemaking is hard work in a way that many people will not understand. The homemaker's mind is on many different areas of home life, and there is always something to do to keep her busy. It is the most important job in the world, and warrants regular resting periods, even if they are only five minutes at a time.
In past times, women had their needlework, embroidery, porcelain painting, sewing, or other quiet things that did not take a lot of effort but required them to retire temporarily from their work and sit still. Today there is tremendous pressure on homemakers to market their skills or things they produce at home. I have heard people admire something a woman has sewn or made, and then say, "You could sell those on ebay while your children are taking a nap," or, "You could make a hundred of those and sell them in a Christmas bazaar." No one seems satisfied to allow a homemaker to sew one child's dress, or crochet a tea cozy, just for a relaxing pasttime. They insist that she must make merchandise of it.
When you take your rest, it is not necessary to pay any heed to other people's opinions of whether or not you should have time off. You have to establish the habit and insist on doing it. Sometimes even the immediate family, including older children, husband, parents and even grand-parents want you to be "productive" financially. They think you are wasting your time and talents if you are not selling something, but the stress of making a business out of your rest time will defeat the purpose of rest.
You can cut down on the cost of your own health care if you will rest a few minutes throughout the day. Lack of rest can cause you to feel slow and run-down, requiring loss of time in your work. As you get further behind, due to ill health or tiredness, you will find it to be costly, and you have to play a strenuous game of catch-up in your work when you recover. When you preserve your health through regular rest, you preserve your own economy in many ways, which is something we could discuss in another post.
Guard your rest time. Once you have established the routine of regular rest, you will have to guard it by not allowing too many exceptions. There was an old fashioned rule of many homes that mother was not to be disturbed unless the house was on fire or someone was seriously hurt. If you only rest for five minutes, problems will not gain enough time to erupt.. You can take five untroubled minutes of rest several times throughout the day. While it is good to be flexible and alert to the needs of the family, it is still possible to sit still for a few minutes and rest.
Summer by the Lake
by Susan Rios
Prepare a Restful Place. In anticipation of a resting time, some people suggest making your bed and adding a small blanket on top of your bed spread so that you will not have to get under the covers, and include a few extra pillows for comfort. Close the curtains and try to get the room well shaded. If your curtains allow too much light for comfortable rest, just use some clothespins and attach some dark fabric, such as dark brown or dark green polar fleece, on top of your curtain rod. Keep a glass of cold water near by, and turn down your phone or anything that may cause a disturbance. If you just want to be still for a few minutes, look around your house to find possible places for rest areas
The purpose of rest is not just for the relief of tension or to rest tired feet or a sore back. Other health benefits include clearer thinking, better memory, better judgement, healing, more energy, less tension, and better digestion. Affective weight loss is also dependent upon adequate rest. A search on the importance of rest can reveal much more, including building the immune system and preventing illness. Emotions are more stable when the body and mind have had rest. Any child that seems strung out and fussy or is constantly crying, needs a nap or rest-time, and so do adults. Adequate rest reduces confusion and irritability.
The Ritual of Rest Can Establish Confidence and Comfort in Daily Living . People who have lived before us have known the value of rest and have taken advantage of certain times of the day or week to indulge in rest. For some reason, their dependence on following certain habits throughout the day or week, whether it be taking tea at three, or sitting on the porch in the evening, gave them stability. Knowing at least partially what was going to happen during a day created reassurance and lack of worry. Rest time can become one of those dependable times that gives stability to your life.
...ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls.
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